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Nine rooms.
One key.
The work you’ve been
waiting to do.

eBooks, workbooks, guided audio, word-for-word scripts — and a live group call with me every month. Everything you need to understand your patterns, have the hard conversations, and build something real.

Step inside the vault 4,000 / month · cancel anytime
01Start Here
02Know Yourself
03Communication & Conflict
04Boundaries & Self-Worth
05Dating & New Relationships
06Healing & Endings
07The Audio Library
08Scripts & Templates
09Live & Community

Inside the vault

Nine rooms, one key

Each room covers a different part of the work — from understanding your patterns to finding the exact words.

Room 01

Start Here

Five minutes to get your bearings, so you don't open this and feel lost.

  • A short hello from me
  • How to actually use the vault
  • A quick self-check that points you to the right rooms
  • Untangled — yours, free, to start with
Room 02 Members only

Know Yourself

The part where you finally see the pattern you keep landing back in.

  • The Anxious–Avoidant Loop Breaker
  • Decoding Your Attachment Style
  • The attachment quiz, with a result that's actually yours
  • A workbook for spotting your own pattern
Room 03 Members only

Communication & Conflict

What to actually say — and how to find your way back after it goes wrong.

  • Conflict Resolution Scripts & the Art of Repair
  • The Core Values & Relationship Vision workbook
  • A workbook for cooling a fight down
  • How to listen so the other person feels it
Room 04 Members only

Boundaries & Self-Worth

Saying no, and not spending the next three days apologising for it.

  • Boundaries Without Guilt — a workbook for the people-pleasers
  • The guilt-to-clarity path (what to do when the guilt lands)
  • A "holding the boundary" audio set for after the conversation
  • Why your worth was never conditional on how much you gave
Room 05 Members only

Dating & New Relationships

Dating without quietly abandoning yourself by the third date.

  • How to Date Without Losing Yourself — a guide for the anxiously attached
  • "Green flag or green paint?" — a clarity sheet for the ones you keep excusing
  • Pacing early relationships without pushing people away
  • The first 90 days: what to watch, what to feel, when to trust
Room 06 Members only

Healing & Endings

For the leaving, and for the long quiet that comes after.

  • Leaving Without Guilt — how to end things with integrity
  • A 30-day post-breakup path (day by day, not week by week)
  • Audios for no-contact nights, for the longing that comes at 2am
  • How to know when grief has become avoidance — and what to do
Room 07 Members only

The Audio Library

Something to put on when you can't think straight — mid-spiral, post-fight, 2am.

  • Before a hard conversation
  • Right after a fight
  • When the anxious spiral starts
  • For sleep, for mornings, for letting go
Room 08 Members only

Scripts & Templates

The exact words, for when your mind goes blank and you need them anyway.

  • "We need to talk" — five ways to open the conversation without it exploding
  • Setting a boundary, word for word, for three different relationships
  • How to reach back after a fight (and not undo everything)
  • Asking for what you need · the first text after a breakup · ending a situationship
Room 09 Members only

Live & Community

Once a month we get on a call, and I work through your actual situation.

  • A monthly group Zoom with me — ask anything, live
  • The hot seat: I work through three real member situations each call
  • Every past call stays in the vault, yours to revisit
  • A small, quiet community space for the in-between

From members

What it feels like inside

I came in thinking I was the problem. Three weeks later I can see the pattern — and it isn't 'me', it's something I learned that I can actually unlearn.

Priya S.

3 weeks in · Know Yourself room

The 2am audio stopped a spiral that would have cost me two days. I listened twice in a row. That alone was worth the whole membership.

Anika M.

1 month in · Audio Library

I used the conflict script word-for-word. My husband said it felt different from how I usually say these things. It was — because it wasn't coming from fear this time.

Deepa R.

6 weeks in · Communication room

Free vs. Inside the vault

Free
Members
The free quiz — it tells you your pattern
The whole path through that pattern, with a workbook
One audio to try (the anxious-spiral soother)
The full audio library, every kind
A free chapter to read
All the eBooks, in full
The journal and Instagram
Every workbook, script and template
Book a Clarity Call
The monthly calls, the community and the hot seat

What arrives each month

Six months of the work

A new masterclass, workbook, audio set and live call every month — on a theme that builds on the last.

Month 1

Understanding the Pattern

  • Masterclass (35 min): Why You Keep Attracting the Same Dynamic
  • A pattern-mapping workbook
  • Three "morning self-worth" audios
  • Live call: open Q&A, and a proper welcome
  • Hot seat: three of your situations, worked through
Month 2

The Hard Conversation

  • Masterclass: Saying the Thing You've Been Avoiding
  • Five word-for-word ways to open a hard talk
  • A pre-conversation calm-down audio set
  • Live call: communication, with live role-play
  • Hot seat: three more situations
Month 3

Boundaries Without Guilt

  • Masterclass: Boundaries That Don't Blow Up the Relationship
  • A guilt-to-clarity workbook
  • A "holding the boundary" audio set
  • Live call: boundaries
  • Hot seat: three more situations

+ Plus a members-only live workshop — my thank-you for staying.

Month 4

Dating Without Losing Yourself

  • Masterclass: How to Date When You Know Your Attachment Pattern
  • "Green flag or green paint?" — a real-talk clarity guide
  • The first 90 days: pacing without pushing people away
  • Live call: dating, early dynamics, and the anxious pull
  • Hot seat: three real situations from the room
Month 5

Healing After Endings

  • Masterclass: Leaving With Integrity — and Living With the Grief
  • A 30-day post-breakup path, day by day
  • Audios for no-contact nights and the longing that hits at 2am
  • Live call: endings, grief, and not confusing healing with forgetting
  • Hot seat: three more situations

+ Plus a guided journalling workshop — what the relationship taught you about yourself.

Month 6

Building What Lasts

  • Masterclass: The Relationship You Want vs. the One You're Used To
  • A vision workbook — what a secure relationship actually feels like for you
  • Audios for the long-term: staying present, staying close
  • Live call: maintenance, drift, and growing together without losing yourself
  • Hot seat: three more situations

+ Plus a members-only celebration call — six months in, where you are, where you're going.

Questions

Yes — no hoops, no friction. Cancel from your account page and you keep access until the end of the month you paid for. I'd rather you stay because it's useful than stay because leaving is hard.

The recording is yours. It goes into the vault within 24 hours and stays there as long as you're a member. You can watch it at 2am in your pyjamas and it will feel just as live.

It's a library you work through at your own pace — eBooks, workbooks, audio — with a monthly call where I work through real situations from members. Not a course with a syllabus. Not a loud community. Something quieter.

Many of my 1:1 clients are also members. The vault deepens the between-session work — the workbooks, the audios for hard nights, the scripts for the conversations you're building toward.

Yes — many members are single and working on their attachment patterns before they date again. Understanding why you do what you do, while you're not in the thick of it, is often the better time to do this work.

Ready when you are.

Cancel anytime. The vault is yours for as long as you are here.

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